When we are standing out on a limb, we try and contemplate when our life was and where we want it to be.
One would say that peacefulness of one's stature defines who we are. Is that what we believe, or is that societies perception of what the normal is.
One takeaway from personal doubt and redefinement, take solace in the fact that you and only you controls your destiny. Don't be trapped by what friends and family try and convince you otherwise.
" Remember, our decisions today, mark the path of tomorrow ".